Sunday, July 14, 2013

Lord, Break Me -- 7/7/2013

Sunday, July 7, 2013

LORD,  BREAK ME

            "I think it's broke.  Yes, it's definitely broken."  Those are not words which we enjoy hearing.  Why not?  Because if it's broken, that means it has to be fixed.  If it isn't fixed, then of what value is it?  I can't use it.  If I try to sell it, its brokenness greatly reduces its value, if it doesn't declare it worthless altogether.
            Against that background, what do we do with a declaration like that of William MacDonald?  "God wants us all to be broken" (chapter title in True Discipleship, p. 147).  We might say instead, "There is only one thing more tragic than broken things, and that is broken people."  Nevertheless, we are confronted with that bold statement, "God wants us all to be broken."
            The truth is that all of us have much experience in laboring long and hard to make sure we aren't broken.  And if we ever have to admit to ourselves that we are broken, then we double our efforts to try to fix what is broken.  Add to that all the labor and diligence required to make it appear we aren't broken, and life can become a heavy burden.  Yet that is the typical life of the man or woman who lives in this world.
            While you hang on to that burden, remember that the God who created us is a holy God.  "The Lord is high above all nations and His above the heavens" (Ps. 113:4).  "There is none holy as the Lord" (I Sam. 2:2).  He is in a class by Himself.  Sin is such an affront to God that a man who reached out to steady the ark, where God's presence dwelt, was immediately killed.  Man cannot stand in the presence of a holy God.  God demands perfection.  With that in mind, it doesn't make sense for a human being to be comfortable with the thought of being broken.  How can a God who demands perfection desire that His creatures be broken?
            So what does William MacDonald mean, when he says, "God wants us all to be broken?"  Wouldn't it be correct to say that we are all broken?  Isn't that what Paul meant when he said, "All have sinned and come short of the glory of God"?  When we compare all our efforts at being righteous with a perfect, holy, and righteous Creator, wouldn't it be accurate to say that we are indeed broken?    
            The answer is a resounding, "No, that is not the meaning of brokenness from God's point of view."  How do we know?  We read statements like this:  "The Lord is near to them who are of a broken heart and saves such as be of a contrite spirit" (Ps. 34:18).  This verse clearly implies that not everyone is of a broken heart.  So being a sinner does not constitute being broken.  Nor does the presence of great affliction and sorrow equal brokenness.  There is a sense in which a parent who loses a young child is brokenhearted, but that does not mean she is broken in a biblical sense.  Some of us have known people who instead of being broken before God as a result of such an experience, have actually become angry and bitter toward Him.
            Biblical brokenness is an attitude toward God.  That is what we want to explore this morning.  How long has it been since you prayed, "Lord, break me"?  Have you ever prayed that prayer?  Does the thought of such a prayer scare you?  Have you ever seen the beauty of being broken?

I.  The Way of Brokenness

            Please turn to the 14th chapter of Luke.  We will go ahead and read the first six verses of the chapter in order to get the flow.  This also reminds us that the words Jesus spoke in verses 7-11 were in the home of a Pharisee.  Let's read Luke 14:1-11...
Now it happened, as He went into the house of one of the rulers of the Pharisees to eat bread on the Sabbath, that they watched Him closely. 2 And behold, there was a certain man before Him who had dropsy. 3 And Jesus, answering, spoke to the lawyers and Pharisees, saying, "Is it lawful to heal on the Sabbath?" 4 But they kept silent. And He took him and healed him, and let him go. 5 Then He answered them, saying, "Which of you, having a donkey or an ox that has fallen into a pit, will not immediately pull him out on the Sabbath day?" 6 And they could not answer Him regarding these things. 7 So He told a parable to those who were invited, when He noted how they chose the best places, saying to them: 8 "When you are invited by anyone to a wedding feast, do not sit down in the best place, lest one more honorable than you be invited by him; 9 and he who invited you and him come But when you are invited, go and sit down in the lowest place, so that when he who invited you comes he may say to you, 'Friend, go up higher.' Then you will have glory in the presence of those who sit at the table with you. 11 For whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted."
            Suppose someone invites you to the table at a wedding feast.  Do not choose the best place.  Literally, "Do not be seated in the first place, the chief place, the highest place."  Jesus is speaking of the place of the highest honor.  We might liken it to being seated at the head table at a banquet.  Don't allow yourself to be seated in the place of honor, because if you do, what happens if later your host comes and has to ask you to get up and take a place of lesser importance?  That would be embarrassing to you and everyone else.  So instead of taking the most honorable place, choose to sit in the lowest place, the least honorable place.  [By the way, we have to understand this in light of the culture.  As I said, in our day, we would liken this to seating at a banquet, where there is a head table.  If we think about seating in this building, it will make little sense.  For some reason, the most honorable seats here seem to be in the back.  Either that, or most of you are so noble that you wouldn't think of taking the seats of honor located at the front!  I know better!]  After you have taken the lowest seat, if it is proper for you to be seated in a more honorable place, the host will come and escort you to that seat.  Instead of being embarrassed, you will be honored.  We could almost boil it down to this:  "Don't honor yourself; if you are to be honored, let someone else do it."  Then Jesus closes the parable with those words which He speaks on several occasions:  "For whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted."
            I want to draw a parallel between being broken and taking the lowest place.  Brokenness before God isn't necessarily measured by the number of tears a person sheds.  It isn't always associated with some sin that is especially wicked in its nature.  Brokenness is an attitude toward God that is content to take the lowest place.  Yes, there may be a crisis experience in which a man is broken before God, where he is reduced to nothing and his sin in all its ugliness is exposed for all to see.  I've been there.  But even that experience does not of itself constitute brokenness; the key is the inward attitude toward God.  Brokenness is content to take the lowest place.
            We may look at the parable Jesus tells and find little problem with its application in our lives.  "I don't mind taking the lowest seat at a banquet.  I don't like sitting at the head table anyway."  Understand that while the setting of this parable has to do with seating at a wedding feast, its application spreads far beyond that context.  Consider your reputation.  Does it mean anything to you?  Suppose you have a reputation for being cool, calm, and collected.  Then one day you learn that an acquaintance with whom you had a disagreement has been telling people that you blew up, yelled at her, and threw a temper tantrum on the spot.  How do you handle that?  What is your attitude?  Are you willing to take the lowest place, or will you rise to the occasion and insist on setting things right?  Such an experience is what Amy Carmichael would call "a chance to die."  (Elizabeth Elliot wrote a book about Amy Carmichael and used "A Chance to Die" for the title).  When rumors were spreading about John Wesley, that godly preacher of the 18th century, those who were close to him came and asked him what they were going to do.  His response went something like this:  "We will do nothing."  He let go of his reputation and left it with the Lord.  He was willing to take the lowest place.
            Look at our Lord Jesus.  If we were to define brokenness as sinfulness, we could in no sense say that Jesus was broken.  But come back again to Ps. 34:18, "The Lord is near to them who are of a broken heart and saves such as be of a contrite spirit."  Was there a brokenness in Jesus?  Yes, it was in His attitude toward His Father.  We are going to come back to this later, but for now just consider this idea of taking the lowest place.  Is that not what Jesus did again and again?  We see it in John 13.  Let's read John 13:1-5...
Now before the feast of the Passover, when Jesus knew that His hour had come that He should depart from this world to the Father, having loved His own who were in the world, He loved them to the end. 2 And supper being ended, the devil having already put it into the heart of Judas Iscariot, Simon's son, to betray Him, 3 Jesus, knowing that the Father had given all things into His hands, and that He had come from God and was going to God, 4 rose from supper and laid aside His garments, took a towel and girded Himself. 5 After that, He poured water into a basin and began to wash the disciples' feet, and to wipe them with the towel with which He was girded.
            Jesus had every right to require that His disciples wash His feet.  After all, He was the master.  Washing feet was slave work, certainly not the responsibility of the master.  What would people think, if they saw Jesus stooping down and washing the feet of such men?  Peter would deny Him.  Judas would betray Him.  Nevertheless, because Jesus was absolutely secure in His relationship with His Father, He was able to take the lowest place.  It didn't matter what anyone else thought.  Jesus wasn't concerned that everyone understand, because He was content with the knowledge that His Father understood.  He through whom the entire universe was created was free to take the lowest place, to stoop down and wash the feet of men who would soon forsake Him.
            This attitude is summed up in that passage that we read a week ago up in the mountains.  Let's read it again -- Phil. 2:5-11...
Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus, 6 who, being in the form of God, did not consider it robbery to be equal with God, 7 but made Himself of no reputation, taking the form of a bondservant, and coming in the likeness of men. 8 And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself and became obedient to the point of death, even the death of the cross. 9 Therefore God also has highly exalted Him and given Him the name which is above every name, 10 that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those in heaven, and of those on earth, and of those under the earth, 11 and that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.

II.  The Difficulty of Brokenness

            So we have seen something of the way of brokenness.  It is the way of lowliness.  It is a willingness to take the lowest place among people.  Brokenness before God is willing to forsake status and reputation in order to draw close to the Lord Himself.
            All of that is fine, but we must acknowledge that the way of brokenness is extremely difficult for people like us.  Why is it so difficult?  Because it's upside down.  It doesn't make sense.  Who wants broken merchandise?  If given a choice between a nice guitar like this and a broken guitar, who will choose the broken one?  If you want to rise to the top, then you have to work at it.  Anyone can figure these things out.  We don't like people tarnishing our reputation.  Nor do we want anyone telling us what to do.  Taking the lowest place likely means that we will get stepped on.  That is not what dreams are made of.
            This takes us back to those Beatitudes we looked at last Saturday, doesn't it. 
        ...Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. 
        ...Blessed are they that mourn, for they shall be comforted. 
        ...Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth. 
        ...Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness, for they shall be filled. 
        ...Blessed are the merciful, for they shall obtain mercy. 
        ...Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God. 
        ...Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the children of God. 
        ...Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness' sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
            As Alex pointed out, they don't make sense to the world.  How can Jesus pronounce a blessing on those who are poor in spirit and those who mourn?  Man works so hard to get to the place where there is no mourning, and he wants to take some pride in himself.  How can Jesus possibly say that the blessing is for those who are persecuted on account of righteousness?  Surely persecution and blessing cannot go together. 
            Let's consider a particular problem that God's people faced.  They don't know the problem is coming, but the fact is they are in danger of being wiped out from drought and famine.  Of course, God, having all knowledge of past, present, and future, knew perfectly well what was going to happen.  He knew the famine was coming and exactly how severe it would be, that there would not be enough food to eat in the land of Canaan.  So what would God do in order to preserve His people?  Remember that God not only has all knowledge, but He also wields infinite power.  So God raised up a mighty ruler named Joseph.  He was a picture of the ultimate fighting machine.  He received the best education and grew up in a model family.  When the proper time came, God raised up a mighty army and put it under the command of this man Joseph.  So when the famine came and Joseph and his family ran out of food, they attacked Egypt and were victorious.  Joseph subjected the Egyptians to his own rule and brought his family down to enjoy the plentiful food supply. 
            What do you think of the story?  It makes good fiction, but that's not what happened.  Only the names of Joseph and Egypt have remain unchanged.  You know the truth of the story.  Joseph was the main human actor, but God did not put him in the model family and furnish him a mighty army.  What did God do?  He watched, while Joseph's brothers sold him into slavery, while Potiphar's wife lied about him and landed him in prison.  For 13 years the Lord stood by and watched Joseph occupy the lowest place that could be imagined.  When He raised Joseph up to be second in command of Egypt, He took him straight from the prison.
            Someone may object and say, "But Joseph didn't have any choice in the matter.  He didn't take the lowest place; it was forced upon him."  There is some truth in that line of thinking, but it isn't the whole truth.  There is absolutely no evidence that Joseph despised his circumstances or fought for his rights.  We read that when Joseph was in the house of Potiphar, "The Lord was with him" (Gen. 39:3).  While he was in the prison that same statement appears again:  "The Lord was with him" (Gen. 39:21).  We also read that Joseph found favor in Potiphar's sight and served him (Gen. 39:4).  The context indicates that he did so willingly.  While he was in prison, Joseph was so unselfish and considerate of the prisoners that he immediately noticed when one morning one of the prisoners was sad (Gen. 40:6).  That is not the picture of a man who was bitter at his circumstances, who harbored a grudge against his brothers.  Joseph was content where he was, trusting the Lord.  And the Lord was faithful to him and to His people.  When God wanted to prepare a man for a mighty work, He set him in a lowly place before he elevated him to greatness in the eyes of others.  That's not the way we would have done it, but it is clearly the way the Lord worked.
            Let's look at those two great passages in Isaiah.  First, Isaiah 57:15, "For thus says the High and Lofty One Who inhabits eternity, whose name is Holy: 'I dwell in the high and holy place, With him who has a contrite and humble spirit, To revive the spirit of the humble, And to revive the heart of the contrite ones.'"  You would think that a great and mighty God would take notice of a man who had achieved greatness by making a name for himself, but that is not the case.  Rather, He sets His heart on the one who is humble and lowly.  That is the one the Lord will raise up.  Then Isaiah 66:1-2, "Thus says the LORD: 'Heaven is My throne, And earth is My footstool. Where is the house that you will build Me? And where is the place of My rest? 2 For all those things My hand has made, And all those things exist,' Says the LORD. 'But on this one will I look: On him who is poor and of a contrite spirit, And who trembles at My word.'"  Again, the Lord doesn't poor out the blessing of His presence on the one who does great things, even great religious things, but upon the one who is poor and lowly, the one who willingly takes the lowest place.  Notice that the blessing isn't for the one who masters the Word, but the one who trembles at the Word.  The same truth is echoed by that verse we know so well:  "For You do not desire sacrifice, or else I would give it; You do not delight in burnt offering.  The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit.  A broken and contrite heart--These, O God, You will not despise" (Ps. 51:17).
            Let's be honest.  Brokenness is not something that naturally appeals to us.  Up until the time we meet Jesus Christ, we know nothing of it.  It is foreign to us.  The world around us sees the path of lowliness as the way of stupidity, and when we forget our Lord and yield to our flesh, we say, "Amen to that."  To put it bluntly, we do not treasure brokenness.  We do not welcome lowliness.  Nevertheless, we cannot deny the truth that the Lord is near to them who are of a broken heart.

III.  The Glory of Brokenness

            Let's look again at the words of our Lord Jesus:  Matt. 11:28-30, "Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For My yoke is easy and My burden is light."  Yes, it is a heavy burden to fight the path of lowliness, to always make sure we are intact and that everyone around us sees us that way.  But Jesus has a better way, for He Himself is gentle and lowly in heart.  He who took the lowest place offers to yoke up with us, promising that His yoke is easy and His burden light.  It's as if He is saying, "Come on.  Get in here with me.  I will show you how it's done."
            It is from Jesus that we learn the glory of brokenness.  Yes, that's right, the glory of brokenness.  When I announce the reference, a few of you will get it immediately.  Let's read from John 12.  Jesus is in Jerusalem for the last time; soon He will be crucified.  Let's begin by reading John 12:12-16...
The next day a great multitude that had come to the feast, when they heard that Jesus was coming to Jerusalem, 13 took branches of palm trees and went out to meet Him, and cried out: "Hosanna! 'Blessed is He who comes in the name of the LORD!' The King of Israel!" 14 Then Jesus, when He had found a young donkey, sat on it; as it is written: 15 "Fear not, daughter of Zion; Behold, your King is coming, Sitting on a donkey's colt." 16 His disciples did not understand these things at first; but when Jesus was glorified, then they remembered that these things were written about Him and that they had done these things to Him.
            Even in this Jesus took the lowly place.  Kings of the world did not make their triumphal entrance on a donkey's colt, but Jesus was content to fulfill the prophecy of His Father.  Now let's drop down and read John 12:20-28...
Now there were certain Greeks among those who came up to worship at the feast. 21 Then they came to Philip, who was from Bethsaida of Galilee, and asked him, saying, "Sir, we wish to see Jesus." 22 Philip came and told Andrew, and in turn Andrew and Philip told Jesus. 23 But Jesus answered them, saying, "The hour has come that the Son of Man should be glorified. 24 Most assuredly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the ground and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it produces much grain. 25 He who loves his life will lose it, and he who hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life. 26 If anyone serves Me, let him follow Me; and where I am, there My servant will be also. If anyone serves Me, him My Father will honor. 27 Now My soul is troubled, and what shall I say? 'Father, save Me from this hour'? But for this purpose I came to this hour. 28 Father, glorify Your name."  
            The hour had come for Jesus, the Son of Man, to be glorified.  He is already in the royal city.  Surely there is nothing left but for Jesus to say the word and let the stirred-up crowd set Him on the throne.  Instead of declaring such royal intentions, Jesus began to speak about a kernel of wheat falling into the ground and dying.  To the worldling who is intent on climbing to the top, Jesus just didn't get it.  He didn't answer when opportunity knocked.  No, Jesus took the lowly place, the place of brokenness.  What clearer picture do we need than of a seed falling to the ground and dying?  Jesus was talking about Himself.  This is what Paul was talking about, when he said that Jesus humbled Himself and became obedient to death, even death on a cross.  Though all eyes expected Him to set up His throne, Jesus immediate-ly reminded them of why He came -- to die for the glory of His Father.  And that is exactly what He expressed in the prayer He actually prayed:  "Father, glorify thy name."  This is the ultimate picture of brokenness, and Jesus said that it was His glory.
            In that same context, Jesus had something to say about those who follow Him.  "He who loves his life will lose it, and he who hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life."  Jesus is basically saying that those who follow Him will walk that same glorious path of brokenness.  Rather than trying to preserve our life and avoid brokenness, we welcome it, for it is the way of eternal life.
            But how can this be?  How can there truly be blessing in brokenness?  It's simple -- that's where the Lord is.  When we walk the path of brokenness, we are sharing the yoke of Jesus.  When we come to God with a broken heart before Him, He is near to us.  Brothers and sisters, that's where the blessing is.  Jesus saw it clearly.  Regardless of what anyone said or thought, He knew that the glory of His Father was all that mattered, because the Father's glory was His glory.  And so it is with every child of God.  His glory is our glory.  Yes, when the Lord is glorified in our lives, we are glorified in Him.  The more glory that comes to God, the more glory that will be ours, even forever and ever.
            A few months ago I read a sermon by Charles Spurgeon.  The title of his message was "Preparation for Revival."  In that sermon he makes the statement, "I do fear that some of us never do go low enough to be blessed."  Think about that concept -- going low enough to be blessed.  The trouble is that we are often deceived into thinking we have to move up to get blessed.  If we can just do a little better in the way we treat others, if we can just be a bit more consistent in Bible study and prayer... surely we will have the blessing of God.  But Jesus said, "Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven."  As we read in Is. 66:2, "But on this one will I look:  On him who is poor and of a contrite spirit, and who trembles at My word."
            In his little book Personal Revival, Stanley Voke reminds us that water always flows down to the lowest place.  That's why when a certain pastor overflows the baptistry, it always ends up in the basement.  Everyone knows that simply principle.  Voke states simply that "like water, God's love flows down to the lowest place" (p. 9).  So when you take the lowest place, you are in the perfect place to be flooded by God's love.  Over and over in his little book this same author speaks of coming to "the sinner's place."  When we come to the place of repentance and brokenness, admitting our sin rather than excusing it, we are in the place to receive God's blessing.  In Jesus' parable of the Pharisee and the publican, which man went away blessed?  It as the publican, the one who was willing to come to the sinner's place.
            That doesn't mean that God wants us to spend all our time mourning over our sin, not at all.  Today many remind us on a regular basis of the danger in focusing on our sin.  However, beware lest that emphasis lead us to believe that we don't need to face our sin squarely and confess it honestly to God. That is a part of brokenness.  This is what it means to walk in the light, as He is in the light (see I John 1:5-2:2).  To live a life of continual brokenness is to walk the road of glory, for that is where we meet our Lord.
            Too often our goal is to get beyond sin and having to confess it to the Lord.  I don't want to make light of I John 2:2, where John says, "These things I have written unto you, that you sin not."  Certainly, we want to avoid sin.  However, we need to understand that even when we sin less, that does not mean there is less need for brokenness.  When we walk in the Lord's light, which exposes our sin, we will see ourselves more and more clearly.  And when we do, we find ourselves coming back "to the sinner's place" again and again.  Praise God that He meets us there and raises us up.  But if we rarely get there, we will miss the blessing of His glorious presence.
           
Conclusion

            I told you Wednesday evening that I would be preaching on revival this morning.  Some of you are wondering why I didn't.  The truth is, that is exactly what I am preaching.  Apart from brokenness there will be no revival in the church, in your life, or in my life.  As it has been observed many times, the way up is down.  "Whosoever shall exalt himself shall be humbled, and whosoever shall humble himself shall be exalted."
            So am I saying that we need a good dose of brokenness?  No, I am not saying it, I am shouting it.  It is not some great sin that keeps us from brokenness; it is the lack of consciousness of sin.  But most of us are quick to say, "I know that my sin is great."  If so, what is your sin?  There is a real difference between admitting to great sin and getting before God and confessing sin, no matter how small it is. 
            I have a dear brother whom I have seen broken before God.  On a few occasions I have heard him say, "I need God to break me again."  If this message has a title, that's it -- "Lord, break me."  Of course, we must understand that we have a role to play.  There is no true brokenness without a change of attitude on the inside.  But with all my lack of wisdom, I know this brokenness before God is not something I can work up.  I must cry out to God, "Lord, break me."  Because He loves me and wants to bless me more and more with His glorious presence, I believe He will do that.
            We have talked about the power of the Spirit.  Brothers and sisters, it is the Spirit who ministers to us the grace of God in Jesus Christ, and that is what we are talking about this morning.  We cannot separate the work of the Spirit from the grace of Jesus. 
            In a moment we are going to sing that song that is familiar to most of us.  I learned it like this...
                        Spirit of the living God, fall fresh on me.
                        Spirit of the living God, fall fresh on me.
                        Break me, melt me, mold me, fill me.
                        Spirit of the living God, fall fresh on me.
However, in our hymnals that one line is different, reading... "melt me, mold me, fill me, use me."  I have often wondered why the difference.  I found my answer the other day.  The author of a blog told of his visit with the son of the song's author, Dan Iverson.  He related that Bill Iverson, pastor and son of the author, explained that the original words were "break me, melt me, mold me, fill me."  Concerning the change, he was quoted as saying, "If you are broken, you don't have to ask to be used.  God delights to use broken people.  That's the only way to be filled, and it's the only way to become usable."  No one seems to know why the change from "break me" to "use me," but I suspect it is because of our resistance to the idea of brokenness.  But praise God, He does indeed delight to use broken people.  May He so delight in breaking us and using us for His glory.


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